Adoption of kids and personalities

It's kinda a weird subject but it's somthin that puzzles me about a person that could leave their kids on a door step, in a shelter, a trash ben, etc... These kids and babies don't know what is going on and what is ahead of them.  It's not just the mothers that make these mistakes it's these dead beat dad's who knock someone up and bail too their F....n basterds!!!!! It really messes with there mind esp when they grow up cause they somtimes make decisions based upon what people think rather than what they think. That missing piece of a family puzzle in their head.They are different from other people cause they don't know why they act like they do. They come from a background that is clueless for them, not knowing who , what or why. It is very interesting how theses kids grow up thou and become somone very special to the adpoties of these kids. The families that adopt or single parent that adopts is a very fortunate person to reclaim a bond for that kid and make them feel special.  I am very fortunate to have a mother that takes care of kids and is a adoptie parent of 2 great boys that are great at sports, very helpful, and all around great kids... I wish the best to adoptie parent/parents all over they are special people, I was fortunate to have freinds that were adopted...... Take care